Comments on: Keep the Old http://eternalhearts.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/keep-the-old/ Just a girl with a blog Wed, 25 Nov 2009 22:57:25 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Twinkle http://eternalhearts.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/keep-the-old/#comment-322 Twinkle Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:34:47 +0000 http://eternalhearts.wordpress.com/?p=803#comment-322 I find moving in with someone (even if it's a *wonderful* thing) to be anxiety producing. I'm so glad that it's going well for you, and that you are still making the effort to keep in touch with your friends. I find moving in with someone (even if it’s a *wonderful* thing) to be anxiety producing.

I’m so glad that it’s going well for you, and that you are still making the effort to keep in touch with your friends.

]]> By: Excalbre http://eternalhearts.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/keep-the-old/#comment-321 Excalbre Fri, 05 Jun 2009 22:30:32 +0000 http://eternalhearts.wordpress.com/?p=803#comment-321 "So, I am taking it upon myself to be available Wednesday, June 17 after work. That is wtbrosie’s cut-off week," I think this is one of the reasons it's been difficult. You've fallen victim to coupledom where life revolves around the other person. Even in this post you're saying you're only available to friends because she's busy. I understand things are fresh, but that's rough and quickly can be read as, "Only when it's convienent" and not "I'll make time for you." It's gotten to the point where we've thought of invited you and thought, no point, she's busy. Just some food for thought... “So, I am taking it upon myself to be available Wednesday, June 17 after work. That is wtbrosie’s cut-off week,”

I think this is one of the reasons it’s been difficult. You’ve fallen victim to coupledom where life revolves around the other person. Even in this post you’re saying you’re only available to friends because she’s busy. I understand things are fresh, but that’s rough and quickly can be read as, “Only when it’s convienent” and not “I’ll make time for you.” It’s gotten to the point where we’ve thought of invited you and thought, no point, she’s busy. Just some food for thought…

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